Using clinical experience and the latest research, a Marriage & Family Therapist offers a roadmap to navigating issues couples commonly face. Relationships aren’t easy, even the good ones. If you are on the verge of a divorce or break-up, in a great relationship, but want to take it to the next level, or single and want to make sure your next relationship is better, this book is for you. Based on cutting-edge research and almost three decades of clinical experience as a Marriage and Family Therapist in private practice, Dr. Jenn Mann teaches you everything you need to know have a deeper, more satisfying relationship, and the skills to fix one that isn’t working. Reading Dr. Jenn’s book is like sitting down with her for a personal session in her treatment room. Using her tell-it-like-it-is approach, Dr. Jenn guides you through the six steps needed to get your relationship on track and helps you to: * Use conflicts to strengthen your relationship * Create connection with your partner, even if you haven't felt it for years * Change bad patterns * Recognize and know what to do when unresolved issues are hurting the relationship * Negotiate effectively to get your needs met * Make an effective apology using the four R's * Learn to forgive * Reignite your sex life The Relationship Fix is also filled with case studies and stories from Dr. Jenn’s clients on VH1’s Couples Therapy with Dr. Jenn and her popular radio show, and on her own personal experiences. Praise for The Relationship Fix “Dr. Jenn does a wonderful job helping others. She’s a passionate voice for change and will take you on a meaningful journey that’ll change your relationship!” —M. Gary Neuman, New York Times–bestselling author of The Truth about Cheating: Why Men Stray and What You Can Do to Prevent It “A practical, no-nonsense guide with an abundance of information and sound advice. It can help your marriage survive, grow, and flourish.” —Harriet Lerner, PhD, author of The Dance of Anger

All couples argue, but how do some couples get to what seems like the point of no return? Licensed marriage and family therapist Dr. Tara Fields has spent more than twenty-eight years working with couples, and she has discovered that there are five common conflict loops that couples fall into—and three steps to getting past having the same fights over and over again and onward to building a relationship where each partner feels heard, understood, respected, and loved. These steps include: Recognizing the conflict loop at play Exploring past and present fears Creating opportunities to get in touch with the deepest needs of both partners in order to find new gratitude, respect, and trust Change comes with awareness. When you’re present in the moment, conflict with your partner can become an opportunity to work through unresolved issues and to learn more about each other; it can even become a way to grow closer. In The Love Fix, Fields shares her tested and proven tools to help build stronger relationships, including: Insight from real couples who have repaired their relationships Self-assessment quizzes to get to the root of the problem Practical 3-Minute Fixes you can start using immediately HEARTwork exercises to help you dig deeper in order to reconnect It’s never too late to reignite your passion and to restore the love between you and your partner. Stop rehashing the same issues, figure out what you’re really fighting about, and start enjoying a happier, stronger relationship today.

Are you tired of having the same arguments and fights with your partner? Do you wonder if your relationship will ever change or if it can be saved? If you are seeking a permanent fix to all of your greatest relationship problems this book is for you. Finding Your Relationship Fix: The Four Reasons to Seek Couples Counseling, outlines the most common reasons couples go to therapy and demonstrates how these issues are treated in counseling. Readers are provided with the tools they need to fix their relationship problems and eliminate the barriers that plague even the greatest of relationships. Marriage and family therapist Chris A. Matthews combines his advanced training and his thousands of hours treating couples to present readers with the solutions they desperately are seeking. From healing after infidelity to fixing broken communication patterns, Chris shares basic therapeutic techniques that couples can apply to find their own relationship fixes and prime them for more in-depth couples therapy. This is an easy-to-read book that does a great job of breaking down the most common issues that lead couples to seek counseling. This book uses real examples of couples who sought therapy to obtain truth and healing-and a fix to their relationship problems.

Do you get tired of constantly second-guessing your partner's actions and intentions? Would you like to build a healthy and balanced romantic relationship? Are you trying to let go of your worries and insecurities about your relationship? If any of this happens to you more often than you'd like to admit, keep reading because you are about to find the solution you need. Overthinking is a toxic behavioral pattern for relationships, and chances are you already have a first-hand experience of that. Most of the time, a simple unanswered call or text can trigger a spiral or ruminations and dreadful scenarios that leave you emotionally and physically drained. Experts agree that one of the most common triggers for overthinking patterns is insecurity, which can lead to anxiety and depression. In 2018, a study published in the Behavioural and Cognitive Psychotherapy, vol 46, issue 4 conducted by Matsumoto, N. and Mochizuki S., discovered that overthinking plays a prominent role in predicting and maintaining depressive symptoms. In this guide you will discover: One simple trick to nip rumination in the bud (this is essential) Why overthinking isn't toxic just for your relationship, but also for your health 4 simple and fun hacks to help you rewire your thought patterns and keep overthinking at bay 3 main insecurities that lead to overthinking (number 2 will surprise you) Practical ways to move away from self-centered thinking and create healthy boundaries in your relationships One essential truth you might not want to believe, which helps you put your needs before others' and build equitable relationships ...and much, much more! This is a practical guide for all who want to get rid of the constant anxiety, rumination, and people-pleasing tendencies that are compromising their relationships. Make the first step towards an overthinking-free life and click the "Add to Cart" button now!

Each of us longs to be loved and accepted for the person we truly are. There is no better opportunity than our love relationship for us to be fully ourselves. Ironically, since our partner is so central to our life, his or her validation becomes critical and we are inclined to hide our true self.

The resident therapist of VH1's hit show Tool Academy shows you how to transform your man and your relationship Millions of people have seen Trina Dolenz inspire couples with surprising ways to improve their troubled relationships on the popular television show Tool Academy. Now Dolenz gives women the tools they need to take charge of the men in their lives and change them for the better-with or without the men's full knowledge or consent. In this groundbreaking guide, she shows you how to change your own perspectives, attitudes, and actions in order to pave the way for dramatic change in his behavior toward you. Trina Dolenz includes a powerful ten-session plan for change that you can implement in your daily life-no special trips to Tool Academy necessary. You'll learn how everyday activities can be transformed into dynamic exercises in communication, positive arguing, and redefining roles, turning Toolish men into great partners. Targets the key relationship problem areas such as arguments, sex, and cheating and shows how to address these issues to retool your relationship for the better Contains a practical ten-session plan you can use to improve your man-without him even knowing it! Features dramatic personal stories of couples Trina Dolenz has worked with both on Tool Academy and off the show Includes interactive exercises to help you change harmful relationship patterns Are Toolish problems driving you crazy? Take charge now with Retool Your Relationship and get him to love you the way you want-and deserve.

In Love Smart, bestselling author Dr. Phil McGraw tells people who are dissatisfied with their love lives to stop making excuses and start taking action. You deserve a committed relationship and it's within your control to have the one you want. First, though, you need to determine what you want in a partner, plot your course, and get out there and create velocity in your pursuit of a loving connection. In this book you'll learn to: -Present the real you in the most flattering light: You have to stop being your own best kept secret. -Peek behind the male curtain: Dr. Phil tells you things about men that they don't necessarily want you to know. How good is your Guy-Q? -Master the right moves: Don't fade into the wallpaper—get noticed and get involved. If you are already coupled up, then learn how to grow and nurture what you have built. -Bag 'em, tag 'em and take 'em home: Learn how to negotiate the relationship you desire and then close the deal. -Get out of your relationship rut: The daily grind, money problems, and work can take their toll on your relationship. Dr. Phil shows you how to assess the state of your union and take your relationship to a deeper level. There are no exceptions—there is somebody for everybody, and everybody deserves a relationship filled with love and excitement. Love Smart offers you the plan to find not just any relationship but the committed, loving, joy-filled relationship you've been waiting for.

Motivational Speaker Chantal Heide helped you pick the right partner in No More Assholes, taught you how to keep little things from becoming big issues in After The First Kiss, and is now here to help unpack the emotional baggage you've been lugging around before it becomes a destructive force. Filled with the advice you need to rise above drama and become the emotional leader in your relationship, Chantal teaches you how to care for yourself and develop the ability to help your partner unpack too. You'll create a relationship fortified against pain and fear and free from the fights that develop from misundstandings, and set the example for lasting, functional love. Whether you're just starting out and seeking to avoid downward spirals or dealing with struggles that are decades old, you'll learn the tools that help you calm your minds, avoid conflicts, communicate effectively, and come together with love and intimacy even after the biggest fights. It's never too early or too late to break through hurt and anger and keep the magic of love at your fingertips. Are you ready to savor the happiest relationship you've ever experienced, filled with joy and appreciation? Then this is the guide for you.

The problem isn't your partner, it's you. The reality is that your partner will not change. You have to change. Whether you want to repair a dysfunctional relationship or your looking for your soul mate, this book of 25 tips will teach you to how to stop ruining your relationships. This book gives readers:- Awareness into your current actions and behavior patterns.- A direct guide of how to create a healthier relationship.- Specific techniques of how to behave appropriately in relationships.

Every couple fights—it’s how you fight that can determine the success of your relationship. This book teaches you to look beyond what you and your partner fight about, and discover the core issues that undermine your relationship. In the midst of a disagreement, many couples ask themselves, “What are we really fighting about?” Sound familiar? As it turns out, breakups and divorce don’t happen because couples fight, they happen because of how couples fight. In this much-needed book, Judith and Bob Wright—two married counselors and coaches with over thirty years of experience helping couples learn how to fight well—present their tried-and-true methods for exploring the emotions that underlie many relationship fights. In this unique guide, you’ll learn how to use disagreements as an opportunity to deepen your understanding of your partner, bring more intimacy to the relationship, strengthen your bond, and really learn from the conflicts and tensions that occur between you. You’ll also learn how to navigate the fifteen most common fights couples have, including “the blame game,” “dueling over dollars,” “If you really loved me, you’d…,” “told-you-so’s,” and more. If you’re ready to start fighting for your love, rather than against it, this book will show you how.