Communication is an art. Couples thrive when they learn to listen deeply, understand completely, and validate one another compassionately. They are happier when they honestly share their perspectives and feelings, learn to disagree, and trust one another to support and strengthen each other and not injure or ridicule. But as Dr. David Hawkins shows, many couples try to win arguments, not to understand each other. They defend themselves, promoting their own opinions and blaming one another. When all else fails, they retreat into silence. What's the answer? This user-friendly manual helps readers recognize their common but ineffective patterns of relating. It offers more constructive alternatives as well as practical steps couples can take to... replace defensiveness with vulnerability and compassion develop more transparency and sincerity achieve greater trust and emotional intimacy Readers will see their marriages transform as they develop new skills in the art of communication.

In this concise and inspiring guide, Hawkins offers straightforward, intelligent answers to nagging questions women face in dealing with this sensitive topic: How can a wife get a husband's undivided attention?

"Energy in motion"—that's how clinical psychologist David Hawkins describes emotions. Hawkins, author of When Pleasing Others Is Hurting You, shows how emotions can help readers discern what is most important, determine what is missing in their lives, and discover how God is leading them in new directions. The Power of Emotional Decision-Making reveals— Emotions are part of God's heart, as Jesus demonstrated in the temple with the moneychangers, at Lazarus' tomb, and in Gethsemane. God communicates not only through our mind and will but also through our emotions. Ignoring our emotions leads to the destructive influence of denial. Paying attention to our emotions helps us to deal more quickly and effectively with resentment and depression. Even anger, fear, and grief can lead us to make effective decisions. This unique guide will help readers discover what God is speaking to their hearts.

Addiction is a rapidly growing problem among Christians and non-Christians alike. Even socially acceptable behaviors, such as shopping, eating, working, playing, and exercising, can quietly take over. Clinical psychologist David Hawkins breaks the silence with this enlightening exposé of the addictions that control people every day. It's loaded with practical information that will help readers... recognize and talk about addiction in their own life or family understand how people become addicted and what can happen when they do break the addictive cycle of thoughts and behaviors create a healthier lifestyle based on scriptural principles build a community of support Virtually everyone is addicted to something or affected by a loved one who is. Many people who appear to live freely are secretly controlled by their compulsion. Breaking Everyday Addictions provides the tools they need to allow the healing power of Christ to permeate their lives.

Nearly all couples experience seasons of relational stress. But as clinical psychologist David Hawkins shows, these times are predictable and manageable. In fact, they can even lead to positive changes and renewed growth. This easy-to-read handbook highlights important warning signals, helping readers avoid many serious consequences of relational trouble. Couples will discover how to call a truce, create stability, and reestablish trust. They'll also learn to... explore the causes of conflict, including longstanding patterns and recent trauma humbly and honestly commit to the process of change eliminate barriers to growth, such as denial, shortcuts, and simplistic solutions identify and build on good things in the relationship develop new skills for communication and conflict resolution Packed with biblical wisdom and practical information from the counseling office, 10 Lifesavers for Every Couple affirms the value of marriage and empowers couples to grow through their times of crisis.

In more than 30 years of ministry to women, Emilie Barnes has heard thousands of dating and marriage stories...some good, some bad. Drawing on these and her 50-plus years of being happily married to her husband, Emilie offers husbands key insights into understanding women, communicating so women will accept their input, and letting their loves know they are cherished. In easy-to-read chapters, readers will find? tools for keeping their marriages uplifting effective ways to handle disagreements ways to keep biblical priorities regarding wives, children, and work questions to spark conversations with their wives Love Makers?little things they can do to delight their mates Advocating biblical values, Emilie encourages husbands to be leaders in their homes, to be strong protectors, to love their wives, and to grow spiritually. "What Makes a Woman Feel Loved" will help men strengthen and add romantic elements to their marriages.

Dr. David Hawkins uncovers the hidden reasons why couples may be hurting emotionally. He offers practical steps couples can take to heal their hurt and lays out a plan for preventing needless pain in the future. This concise and easily accessible manual also identifies several communication strategies that couples often use but that actually never work, and it offers more helpful alternatives: Focus on ways you can agree, not ways you disagree. Attack the problem, not the person. If you're winning arguments, you're losing the battle. Readers will find plenty of helpful alternatives to their destructive communication patterns and a full supply of easy-to-use steps to increase their emotional intimacy and restore the joy in their relationships.

The author teaches couples to put Jesus first in their lives and marriage and to apply Christs teachings to their relationships to develop their own revolutionary marriages.

Dr. David Hawkins explains the difference between real guilt, false guilt, shame, and conviction, bringing these hidden feelings into the light and demonstrating how they can reveal the true causes of emotional pain. He demonstrates that feelings of guilt can come not only from our own poor choices but also from other sources, such as... perfectionism rejection from a family member or friend failure—real or perceived emotional or verbal abuse codependency Readers will be encouraged and inspired to take responsibility for their lives as they discover biblically sound remedies for each of the four kinds of guilt and strategies for avoiding guilt in the future.