Award-winning clinical psychologist and TV personality Dr. Judy Ho helps you stop the cycle of self-sabotage, clear a path to lasting happiness, and start living your best life in this a must-have guide perfect for fans of You Are a Badass, Unf*ck Yourself, and How to Stop Feeling Like Sh*t. Have you ever had a deadline for a big work project, only to find yourself down to the wire because you spent too much time on social media? Or gotten excited about meeting someone new, only to convince yourself he isn’t really interested? How many Januarys have you resolved that this is the year you’re finally going to lose the weight, only to abandon your diet in just a few weeks? If these scenarios sound familiar, you are stuck in a cycle of self-sabotage. At one point or another, we’ve all done something that undermines our best interests and intentions. Even the most successful people get in their own way—often without realizing it. In Stop Self-Sabotage, licensed clinical psychologist, tenured professor, and television personality Dr. Judy Ho takes a fresh look at self-sabotage to help us answer two vital questions: Why do we do it? How do we stop? Combining therapeutically proven strategies with practical tools and self-assessments, Dr. Judy teaches you how to identify your triggers, modify your thoughts and behaviors, find your true motivation, and unlock your willpower to stop this vicious cycle in its tracks. Practical and transformative, Stop Self-Sabotage is your ultimate guide to jumpstart lasting, positive change and start living the life you want.

This book teaches newcomers about meditation, healing, learning to take care of yourself and to be at your best. Many of us have internalized the negative, critical voices from school and society from a young age. For many, these voices are crippling. The most important change we can begin to make today, is to heal ourselves, quiet the inner voices of self-doubt and self-sabotage, and awaken to our creative power. Here is a preview of what you'll learn... How to overcome self-sabotage Boost self-esteem and confidence Easy steps to cure self-sabotaging behavior Reducing and avoiding bad habits Identify the cause of self-defeating patterns How to eliminate the triggers behind self-sabotage Strategies to change negative habits You’ll encounter fresh and thought-provoking ideas on how to be freed from self-sabotage. This enlightenment will complement your strong desire to stop destroying wonderful opportunities and start creating more doors through which greener pastures can be reached. You are in control. You have the potential to succeed. Now, you have something to help you win every battle. Get the book today!!

Overcome damaging behavior habits, conquer negative thought patterns, and learn to thrive in life. Constantly backsliding when it comes to healthy eating? Putting off deadlines until the last minute? Even when you’re committed to making change, sometimes it feels as if you are always in your own way. When your attitude and actions create problems in daily life and interfere with long-standing goals, they are called self-sabotage behaviors. The most common self-sabotaging behaviors include procrastination, comfort eating, and self-medication with drugs or alcohol. The Self-Sabotage Behavior Workbook is a game changer for those struggling with counter-productive and damaging habits. This friendly guide includes: Journal prompts to help you understand your triggers Visualization ideas to conquer negative thought cycles Mental exercises to strengthen your resolve Real-life case-studies And much more! Readers will come away with a new ability to process and accept their emotions and an understanding of how to live a confident and empowered life.

Are you tired of being weighed down by negative thoughts and emotions? Do you feel like negativity is holding you back from achieving your goals and living a fulfilling life? If so, then Negativity Begone: The Ultimate Guide to Overcoming Negative Thinking and Living a Positive Life is the book for you. This comprehensive guide is packed with practical strategies and techniques for overcoming negative thinking patterns and cultivating a positive mindset. From the power of positive self-talk and mindfulness to building resilience and embracing failure, this book covers all aspects of overcoming negativity and living a positive life. Whether you're struggling with self-doubt, stress and anxiety, or simply want to improve your overall well-being and happiness, Negativity Begone is the ultimate guide for transforming your life. With expert guidance and real-life examples, you'll learn how to let go of negative emotions, set realistic goals, and surround yourself with positive and supportive people. So why wait? Take control of your life and overcome negativity once and for all with Negativity Begone: The Ultimate Guide to Overcoming Negative Thinking and Living a Positive Life. Order your copy today and start living the positive life you deserve!

FINALLY, THE BREAKTHROUGH BOOK THAT PUTS YOU BACK IN CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE Most of us have met our Outer Child once too often. The self-sabotaging, bungling, and impulsive part of the personality. This misguided, hidden nemesis—the devil on your shoulder—blows your diet, overspends, and ruins your love life. A menacing older sibling to your emotionally needy Inner Child, your Outer Child acts out and fulfills your legitimate childlike needs and wants in the wrong place, at the wrong time, and in counterproductive ways: It goes for immediate gratification and the quick fix in spite of your best-laid plans. Food, attention, emotional release—your Outer Child usually gets what it wants, and your Adult self can feel powerless to stop it. Now, in a revolutionary rethinking of the link between emotion and behavior, veteran psychotherapist and theoretician Susan Anderson offers a three-step, paradigm-shifting program to tame your Outer Child’s destructive behavior. This dynamic, transformational set of strategies—action steps that act like physical therapy for the brain—calms your Inner Child, strengthens your Adult Self and releases you from the self-blame and shame that are the root of Outer Child issues, and paves new neural pathways that can lead to more productive behavior. Discover • the common Outer Child personality types, including the Drama Queen; the Master of Disguise; My Way or No Way; and Love the Getting, not the Having • proven techniques to resolve underlying sources of self-sabotage • insights that will allow you to stop blaming your supposed “lack of willpower” for your problems • key strategies for healing the painful issues of your past • mental exercises that effectively deal with Outer Child challenges around food, procrastination, love, debt, depression, and more As your head, heart, and behavior come together and learn to help, not hurt, one another, your strong Adult Self, contented Inner child, and tamed Outer child will become a reality. The result is happiness and fulfillment, self-mastery, and self-love. From the Hardcover edition.

Chamine exposes how your mind is sabotaging you and keeping your from achieving your true potential. He shows you how to take concrete steps to unleash the vast, untapped powers of your mind.

An empowering guide to overcoming self-defeating behaviors I can’t believe I just did that! Why does this always happen to me? I really should stop myself from . . . Sound familiar? Whether we’re aware of it or not, most of us are guilty of self-sabotage. These behaviors can manifest in seemingly innocuous ways, but if left unchecked can create stress and cause problems in all areas of your life. In The Healthy Mind Toolkit, Dr. Alice Boyes provides easy, practical solutions that will help you identify how you’re holding yourself back and how to reverse your self-sabotaging behaviors. Blending scientific research with techniques from cognitive behavioral therapy, this engaging book will take you through the steps to address this overarching problem, including how to: • Identify the specific ways you're hurting your success in all aspects of your life • Capitalize on the positive aspects of your extreme traits instead of the negatives • Find creative solutions to curb your self-defeating patterns • Practice self-care as a problem-solving strategy Filled with quizzes and insightful exercises to personalize your journey from harmful behaviors to healthy habits, The Healthy Mind Toolkit is the essential guide to get out of your own way and get on the path to success.

THIS IS A BOOK ABOUT SELF-SABOTAGE. Why we do it, when we do it, and how to stop doing it-for good. Coexisting but conflicting needs create self-sabotaging behaviors. This is why we resist efforts to change, often until they feel completely futile. But by extracting crucial insight from our most damaging habits, building emotional intelligence by better understanding our brains and bodies, releasing past experiences at a cellular level, and learning to act as our highest potential future selves, we can step out of our own way and into our potential. For centuries, the mountain has been used as a metaphor for the big challenges we face, especially ones that seem impossible to overcome. To scale our mountains, we actually have to do the deep internal work of excavating trauma, building resilience, and adjusting how we show up for the climb. In the end, it is not the mountain we master, but ourselves.

Discover how transactional analysis (ta) can transform your relationships, communication, and personal growth. This comprehensive guide explores the powerful tools of ta, helping you to understand the dynamics between your parent, adult, and child ego states and how they shape your interactions. Whether you're seeking to improve family, work, or romantic relationships, this book will teach you how to manage conflicts, break free from limiting life scripts, and foster deeper, more authentic connections with yourself and others. This book offers practical, actionable steps to help you: • Understand the role of the ego in shaping your thoughts, behaviors, and emotions. • Recognize the subtle ways the ego sabotages your happiness and holds you back from achieving your goals. • Cultivate self-awareness and emotional intelligence to navigate life’s challenges with grace and composure. • Develop mindfulness and meditation techniques to quiet the ego’s inner chatter and find clarity in your decisions. • Embrace gratitude and empathy as powerful tools for diminishing the ego’s influence and fostering deeper connections with others. This book is a guide for male to female cross-dressers on how to look more convincing in their feminine state. It will give readers an overview of how men and women are different in their body shape, facial features and voice and give tips and advice on how to exercise, eat, apply make up, style wigs and dress to be the most alluring and passable female they can be. For those that are interested in exploring causes of cross-dressing or want advice on having a partner this book has it covered too.

Practical, proven self help steps show how to transform 40 common self-defeating behaviors, including procrastination, envy, obsession, anger, self-pity, compulsion, neediness, guilt, rebellion, inaction, and more.