How We Grieve

How We Grieve
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Publisher : Oxford University Press
Total Pages : 261
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ISBN-10 : 9780199780136
ISBN-13 : 0199780137
Rating : 4/5 (36 Downloads)

Synopsis How We Grieve by : Thomas Attig PhD

If we wish to understand loss experiences we must learn details of survivors' stories. The new version of How We Grieve: Relearning the World tells in-depth tales of survival to illustrate the poignant disruption of life and suffering that loss entails. It shows how through grieving we overcome challenges, make choices, and reshape our lives. These intimate treatments of coping with loss address the needs of grieving people and those who hope to support and comfort them. The accounts promote understanding of grieving itself, encourage respect for individuality and the uniqueness of loss experiences, show how to deal with helplessness in the face of "choiceless" events, and offer guidance for caregivers. The stories make it clear that grieving is not about living passively through stages or phases. We are not so alike when we grieve; our experiences are complex and richly textured. Nor is grieving about coming down with "grief symptoms". No one can treat us to make things better. No one can grieve for us. Grieving is instead an active process of coping and relearning how to be and how to act in a world where loss transforms our lives. Loss forces us to relearn things and places; relationships with others, including fellow survivors, the deceased, even God; and our selves, our daily life patterns, and the meanings of our life stories. This revision adds an introductory essay about developments in the author's thinking about grieving as "relearning the world." It highlights and clarifies its most distinctive and still salient themes. It elaborates on how his thinking about these themes has expanded and deepened since the first edition. And it places his treatment of those themes in the broader context of current writings on grief and loss.

The Five Ways We Grieve

The Five Ways We Grieve
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Publisher : Shambhala Publications
Total Pages : 254
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ISBN-10 : 9780834822276
ISBN-13 : 083482227X
Rating : 4/5 (76 Downloads)

Synopsis The Five Ways We Grieve by : Susan A. Berger

In this new approach to understanding the impact of grief, Susan A. Berger goes beyond the commonly held theories of stages of grief with a new typology for self-awareness and personal growth. She offers practical advice for healing from a major loss in this presentation of five basic ways, or types, of grieving. These five types describe how different people respond to a major loss. The types are: • Nomads, who have not yet resolved their grief and don’t often understand how their loss has affected their lives • Memorialists, who are committed to preserving the memory of their loved ones by creating concrete memorials and rituals to honor them • Normalizers, who are committed to re-creating a sense of family and community • Activists, who focus on helping other people who are dealing with the same disease or issues that caused their loved one’s death • Seekers, who adopt religious, philosophical, or spiritual beliefs to create meaning in their lives Drawing on research results and anecdotes from working with the bereaved over the past ten years, Berger examines how a person’s worldview is affected after a major loss. According to her findings, people experience significant changes in their sense of mortality, their values and priorities, their perception of and orientation toward time, and the manner in which they "fit" in society. The five types of grieving, she finds, reflect the choices people make in their efforts to adapt to dramatic life changes. By identifying with one of the types, readers who have suffered a recent loss—or whose lives have been shaped by an early loss—find ways of understanding the impact of the loss and of living more fully.

Grief Isn't Something to Get Over

Grief Isn't Something to Get Over
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Publisher : American Psychological Association
Total Pages : 214
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ISBN-10 : 9781433837951
ISBN-13 : 1433837951
Rating : 4/5 (51 Downloads)

Synopsis Grief Isn't Something to Get Over by : Mary C. Lamia

The loss of a loved one can be overwhelming. How do we endure grief? Can we simply forget, or "get over it?" This book explains the science behind bereavement, from emotion to the persistence of memory, and shows readers how to understand and adapt to death as a part of life. Responses to loss are typically associated with negative emotions, traumatic memories, or separation distress, but we grieve because we care. This book demonstrates how negative emotional responses experienced in grief often follow experiences with positive emotional memories. Dr. Lamia emphasizes an understanding and acceptance of post-loss emotions. Grief Isn't Something to Get Over aims to expand our understanding of bereavement, placing it in alignment with how emotions work. Using numerous case examples and personal vignettes, this book helps readers recognize the ways in which emotions are connected to memories and influence our experiences of loss.

Getting to the Other Side of Grief

Getting to the Other Side of Grief
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Publisher : Baker Books
Total Pages : 230
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ISBN-10 : 9781493417681
ISBN-13 : 1493417681
Rating : 4/5 (81 Downloads)

Synopsis Getting to the Other Side of Grief by : Susan J. R.N. Zonnebelt-Smeenge, Ed.D

There is little in life that rocks us like the death of a husband or wife. Whether you're feeling alone, drowning under an ocean of emotions, or you've worked your way through to the darkest nights of the soul and are now wondering how to get on with your life, you'll find comfort and guidance from the authors of this book. One a clinical psychologist, the other a pastor and professor, both suffered the loss of a spouse at a relatively young age. Their empathy, valuable psychological insights, biblical observations, and male and female perspectives will help you experience your grief in the healthiest and most complete way so that you can move forward to embrace the new life that is waiting for you on the other side.

Monkey Mind

Monkey Mind
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Publisher : Simon and Schuster
Total Pages : 216
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ISBN-10 : 9781439177310
ISBN-13 : 1439177317
Rating : 4/5 (10 Downloads)

Synopsis Monkey Mind by : Daniel Smith

Shares the author's personal experiences with anxiety, describing its painful coherence and absurdities while sharing the stories of other sufferers to illustrate anxiety's intellectual history and influence.

Living With Grief

Living With Grief
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Publisher : Routledge
Total Pages : 327
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ISBN-10 : 9781317758488
ISBN-13 : 131775848X
Rating : 4/5 (88 Downloads)

Synopsis Living With Grief by : Kenneth J. Doka

Produced as a companion to the Hospice Foundation of America's fifth annual National Bereavement Teleconference, this volume examines how key aspects of identity affect how individuals grieve. Variables explored include culture, spirituality, age and development level, class and gender.

When Men Grieve

When Men Grieve
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Publisher :
Total Pages : 174
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ISBN-10 : 1577490789
ISBN-13 : 9781577490784
Rating : 4/5 (89 Downloads)

Synopsis When Men Grieve by : Elizabeth Levang

Shares the stories of men who have had to deal with grief and loss, and discusses the feelings of denial, anger, bitterness, and despair that can appear

The Grieving Brain

The Grieving Brain
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Publisher : HarperCollins
Total Pages : 245
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ISBN-10 : 9780062946256
ISBN-13 : 0062946250
Rating : 4/5 (56 Downloads)

Synopsis The Grieving Brain by : Mary-Frances O'Connor

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The Plain Guide to Grief

The Plain Guide to Grief
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Publisher :
Total Pages : 212
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ISBN-10 : 1800491379
ISBN-13 : 9781800491373
Rating : 4/5 (79 Downloads)

Synopsis The Plain Guide to Grief by : John Wilson, PhD

In plain language, this book tells you how to manage your grief following a life changing loss. It tells you what to expect in the coming weeks, months and years. Your grief is unique. Nobody has ever grieved like you are doing, so this is a guide to support you in your journey, not a method for you to follow. If you are reading this because you are grieving a loss, then most likely a person close to you has died. However, this book can help with other difficult losses. Loss of a job, of health, of a friendship or an intimate relationship, are just some of the losses that we grieve. 'Loved one' can refer to a pet too.The plain and simple language of the book is important when your loss is new. Grief makes it hard to concentrate, so this book uses simple words, short sentences and not too many words on a page.The author, Dr John Wilson, has supported hundreds of grieving people over the past twenty years, and continues to research how people grieve. This book is based on the real experience of grieving people whose stories have been made anonymous. Dr Wilson is author of 'Supporting People through Loss and Grief: An introduction for Counsellors and Other Caring Practitioners.' Published in 2013, it is often used to train bereavement counsellors and volunteers in bereavement support.This edition includes a chapter on bereavement from and during the Covid-19 pandemic.

Good Grief

Good Grief
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Publisher : Simon and Schuster
Total Pages : 224
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ISBN-10 : 9781501139086
ISBN-13 : 1501139088
Rating : 4/5 (86 Downloads)

Synopsis Good Grief by : Theresa Caputo

The star of "Long Island Medium" shares inspiring, spirit-based lessons on how to work through and overcome grief, in a guide that also offers example testimonies about the experiences of her clients