Are you saddened but unsure about how best to express your deep feelings in the face of loss, sorrow. or tragedy? Do you find yourself starting a note over again and again because your words sound too cold, too graphic, insincere? In sympathy situations, friends and family have the greatest need to hear from you. Don’t leave them wondering about your lack of concern. But how to write sympathy notes that adequately convey your heart-felt emotions is no easy task. When you aren’t finding the right words to express comfort, you can make the sympathy note or sympathy letter writing process a little easier in this stressful situation with our professionally written collection of condolence notes. You’ll find these emails or notes of sympathy for both personal and business situations: · Death of a child · Death of a parent · Death of a spouse · Death of other relatives · Miscarriage · Death of pet · Disaster—loss of home · Disaster—loss of business · Business failure · Personal failures · Financial ruin · Loss of job—friend · Loss of job—coworker · Illness--get well soon · Terminal illness—friend · Terminal illness—acquaintance · Wedding—cancelled · Divorce—to parents of those getting divorce · Divorce—to friend or relative getting divorce · Criminal conviction · Crime victim How to Use This Collection of Sympathy Letters and Notes You have two choices: 1. Download the PDF package and select the sample sympathy letter you need. Then copy and paste it into Microsoft Word or any other word processor. Send it out. 2. Read samples to “get the flavor” of what the sympathy letter or note should say. Then “pick and choose” sentences you like to use in composing your own sympathy letter or note. Total Number of Letters and Notes: 40 Total Number of Situations/Topics: 24 If you need a sympathy letter or note to show someone you care and you can’t find exactly the right words, let us help with this professionally written package that offers many choices to help you express your thoughts. Award-winning author of 49 books (published by Simon and Schuster/Pocket Books, Random House/Ballantine, McGraw-Hill, Wiley, Warner, and Thomas Nelson), Dianna Booher provides just the right words with these ready-to-go, sympathy notes that will help you say just the right thing, in just the right way, for every situation.

Are you saddened but unsure about how best to express your deep feelings in the face of sorrow or tragedy? In sympathy situations, friends and family have the greatest need to hear from you. Don't leave them wondering about your lack of concern. Begin your letter or note with a straightforward comment about your feelings-your sadness, your shock, your sorrow, or your concern. Mention something positive you remember about the individual or, if you did not know him or her personally, recall something you've heard others say. Let the reader know that you understand the extent of the loss or the painful situation in the case of a misfortune. But do show sensitivity. Avoid adding gruesome details or increasing the pain. If possible, and if you're sincere, offer to help in some specific way: Be brief. You don't need to go into all the details of the situation-how you heard the news or what so-and-so told you. Your caring concern in "I am so sorry" speaks volumes. Close with a comforting phrase-a final thought that reflects your concern and is appropriate to your relationship with the person. Make your words genuine and personal-as if you were talking face to face. This is not a task that you should delegate to someone else. Use your personal stationery or card. Typically, you should write the note by hand. But if you're writing to a business colleague or client, a typed letter is acceptable-depending on the closeness of the association.If you'd like to make the sympathy letter writing process even easier, we can help even more. If you still can't find the right words to express comfort, try our professionally written package of sympathy letters and notes.You'll find sample sympathy letters for both personal and business situations: Personal Sympathy and Business Sympathy Letters Death of a child Death of a parent Death of a spouse Death of other relatives Miscarriage Death of pet Personal failures Disaster-loss of home Disaster-loss of business Business failure Financial ruin Loss of job-friend Loss of job-coworker Get well soon Terminal illness-friend Terminal illness-acquaintance Wedding-cancelled Divorce-to parents of those getting divorce Divorce-to friend or relative getting divorce Criminal conviction Crime victim"

Teaches readers the right words and strategies to communicate comfort in difficult times.

It can be very difficult to find the right words of sympathy and encouragement when someone you love has suffered a loss. Often finding the right words to write in a sympathy card or letter can be quite hard, especially if you knew the deceased well, and you are in shock yourself. These sample sympathy letters, messages and quotes will help you to give comfort and support to the bereaved and to those suffering other kinds of loss too. We will help you find words to express sympathy which will be positive and helpful, and treasured for years to come by those who receive them. The book contains: Tips on writing sympathy notes Sample sympathy letters for many different circumstances Messages to send for funerals Messages for condolence flowers and cards Phrases for Funeral Flowers and Wreaths Inspirational quotes for sympathy notes, cards and flowers Messages suitable for loss of a pet Some of the messages have been published on our website www.griefandsympathy.com where they have helped over a million visitors express their condolences, but this book contains many extra letters and quotes which do not appear on the site. About the authors: Elizabeth Postle is the author of the website GriefandSympathy.com and "A Healing Hug for Alzheimer's Caregivers". She has spent her whole career helping people to cope with death, and has also suffered her own personal losses. Her empathy and experience enable her to know instinctively the right thing to say when someone is grieving. She began a 45 year career in nursing and healthcare in 1955 at the age of 16 when she travelled by bus from the North of England to live and begin a nursing cadetship in Southend on Sea. Her long and varied career as a Nurse, Midwife, Health Visitor and later running her own nursing home included training and working within the areas of Psychology, Sociology, Paediatrics, Child Development, Counselling, Aged Care and Dementia Care. Her daughter Lesley Postle is editor, publisher and contributor to GriefandSympathy.com and several other websites. Look inside the book to see more. . . . just click the image!

From the globally acclaimed, best-selling novelist and author of We Should All Be Feminists, a timely and deeply personal account of the loss of her father: “With raw eloquence, Notes on Grief … captures the bewildering messiness of loss in a society that requires serenity, when you’d rather just scream. Grief is impolite ... Adichie’s words put welcome, authentic voice to this most universal of emotions, which is also one of the most universally avoided” (The Washington Post). Notes on Grief is an exquisite work of meditation, remembrance, and hope, written in the wake of Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie's beloved father’s death in the summer of 2020. As the COVID-19 pandemic raged around the world, and kept Adichie and her family members separated from one another, her father succumbed unexpectedly to complications of kidney failure. Expanding on her original New Yorker piece, Adichie shares how this loss shook her to her core. She writes about being one of the millions of people grieving this year; about the familial and cultural dimensions of grief and also about the loneliness and anger that are unavoidable in it. With signature precision of language, and glittering, devastating detail on the page—and never without touches of rich, honest humor—Adichie weaves together her own experience of her father’s death with threads of his life story, from his remarkable survival during the Biafran war, through a long career as a statistics professor, into the days of the pandemic in which he’d stay connected with his children and grandchildren over video chat from the family home in Abba, Nigeria. In the compact format of We Should All Be Feminists and Dear Ijeawele, Adichie delivers a gem of a book—a book that fundamentally connects us to one another as it probes one of the most universal human experiences. Notes on Grief is a book for this moment—a work readers will treasure and share now more than ever—and yet will prove durable and timeless, an indispensable addition to Adichie's canon.

From overcoming illegible penmanship to mastering the challenge of keeping straight margins, avoiding smeared ink, and choosing stationery that is appropriate but suits your style, this is a powerful little guide to conveying thoughts in an enduring—and noteworthy—way. For those who enjoy writing notes, or those who value doing so but find themselves intimidated by the task, acclaimed calligrapher Margaret Shepherd has created both an epistolary tribute and rescue manual. Just as you cherish receiving personal mail, you can take pleasure in crafting correspondence. Love, gratitude, condolences, congratulations—for every emotion and occasion, a snippet of heartfelt prose is included, sure to loosen the most stymied letter writer.

Just when it may seem that nothing else could be said about Virginia Woolf and the ambiguous details of her suicide, "Afterwords" provides an entirely fresh perspective. It makes available to a wide readership for the first time letters sent to Leonard Woolf and Vanessa Bell (Virginia Woolf's sister) in the aftermath of the event. This unique volume brings together over two hundred letters from T. S. Eliot, H. G. Wells, May Sarton, Vita Sackville-West, Edith Sitwell, E. M. Forster, Radclyffe Hall, and many others, including political figures and religious leaders. In addition, informative annotations reveal the identities of many unexpected condolence-letter writers from among the general public.

Inspired by the website that the New York Times hailed as "redefining mourning," this book is a fresh and irreverent examination into navigating grief and resilience in the age of social media, offering comfort and community for coping with the mess of loss through candid original essays from a variety of voices, accompanied by gorgeous two-color illustrations and wry infographics. At a time when we mourn public figures and national tragedies with hashtags, where intimate posts about loss go viral and we receive automated birthday reminders for dead friends, it’s clear we are navigating new terrain without a road map. Let’s face it: most of us have always had a difficult time talking about death and sharing our grief. We’re awkward and uncertain; we avoid, ignore, or even deny feelings of sadness; we offer platitudes; we send sympathy bouquets whittled out of fruit. Enter Rebecca Soffer and Gabrielle Birkner, who can help us do better. Each having lost parents as young adults, they co-founded Modern Loss, responding to a need to change the dialogue around the messy experience of grief. Now, in this wise and often funny book, they offer the insights of the Modern Loss community to help us cry, laugh, grieve, identify, and—above all—empathize. Soffer and Birkner, along with forty guest contributors including Lucy Kalanithi, singer Amanda Palmer, and CNN’s Brian Stelter, reveal their own stories on a wide range of topics including triggers, sex, secrets, and inheritance. Accompanied by beautiful hand-drawn illustrations and witty "how to" cartoons, each contribution provides a unique perspective on loss as well as a remarkable life-affirming message. Brutally honest and inspiring, Modern Loss invites us to talk intimately and humorously about grief, helping us confront the humanity (and mortality) we all share. Beginners welcome.

The creator of the viral hit "Empathy Cards" teams up with a compassion expert to produce a visually stunning and groundbreaking illustrated guide to help you increase your emotional intelligence and learn how to offer comfort and support when someone you know is in pain. When someone you know is hurting, you want to let her know that you care. But many people don’t know what words to use—or are afraid of saying or doing the wrong thing. This thoughtful, instructive guide, from empathy expert Dr. Kelsey Crowe and greeting card maverick Emily McDowell, blends well-researched, actionable advice with the no-nonsense humor and the signature illustration style of McDowell's immensely popular Empathy Cards, to help you feel confident in connecting with anyone experiencing grief, loss, illness, or any other difficult situation. Written in a how-to, relatable, we’ve-all-been-that-deer-in-the-headlights kind of way, There Is No Good Card for This isn’t a spiritual treatise on how to make you a better person or a scientific argument about why compassion matters. It is a helpful illustrated guide to effective compassion that takes you, step by step by step, past the paralysis of thinking about someone in a difficult time to actually doing something (or nothing) with good judgment instead of fear. There Is No Good Card for This features workbook exercises, sample dialogs, and real-life examples from Dr. Crowe’s research, including her popular "Empathy Bootcamps" that give people tools for building relationships when it really counts. Whether it’s a coworker whose mother has died, a neighbor whose husband has been in a car accident, or a friend who is seriously ill, There Is No Good Card for This teaches you how to be the best friend you can be to someone in need.

Your heart is crushed. Finding it even difficult to breathe, you wake up to the reality that someone you treasure is gone. Death has stolen your loved one from your arms. Now the seemingly insurmountable difficult work of living through grief begins. Is there anything that can soothe this overwhelming ache? Is there a safe place for the anger? Will depression become a constant companion? Does the painful malaise last forever? How can I just get through the day? Comfort for the Day offers a personalized grief recovery experience, drawn from the source of all comfort– God. His Word will become a guide and friend as the reader lives through the confusing and painful seasons of grief. Comfort for the Day is what each grieving heart longs for. Used either as a gift for the bereaved or for your own personal needs, Comfort for the Day brings real help for really hurting people.