Antoinetta Vogels' HEALTHY SENSE OF SELF builds awareness of the hidden drives that fuel your reasons for doing or avoiding things, so you get more understanding of what truly motivates you. Gaining insight into your motivations helps to improve your health and mental clarity as well as to address relationship challenges, overcome anger, anxiety, or depression, and become more confident. With a Healthy Sense of Self you feel the freedom to live your life the way you want to; without it, you become the slave of other people's approval! Ideally, your Sense of Self develops in early childhood, but the influence of narcissistic parents, teachers, or other caregivers can negatively affect its growth. If your Sense of Self fails to emerge, it can result in a lifelong fight for acknowledgement and an addiction to approval. A continuous need to prove yourself leads to stress, which can result in disease and dysfunction. But it is possible to reverse this unhealthy mindset and become a healthier and happier person! HEALTHY SENSE OF SELF: the Secret to Being Your Best Self introduces the Sense of Self Method(R) and provides you with the insights and tools necessary to gain access to the reasons behind your choices and behavior. Once these drives emerge from the shadows of your subconscious, you are in the best possible position to rethink your goals, adjust your motivation, and heal your Self (Heal thy Self). You will become free to be your own person and live life to your fullest potential.

Through Healthy Sense of Self, LLC, Antoinetta offers education on what can go wrong with our relationship to self and others, when, in early childhood, we are not acknowledged as the (potentially) autonomous person we are. She has developed exercises and techniques to overcome the effects of this condition.

Antoinetta Vogels’ HEALTHY SENSE OF SELF builds awareness of the hidden drives that fuel your reasons for doing or avoiding things, so you get more understanding of what truly motivates you. Gaining insight into your motivations helps to improve your health and mental clarity as well as to address relationship challenges, overcome anger, anxiety, or depression, and become more confident. With a Healthy Sense of Self you feel the freedom to live your life the way you want to; without it, you become the slave of other people’s approval! Ideally, your Sense of Self develops in early childhood, but the influence of narcissistic parents, teachers, or other caregivers can negatively affect its growth. If your Sense of Self fails to emerge, it can result in a lifelong fight for acknowledgement and an addiction to approval. A continuous need to prove yourself leads to stress, which can result in disease and dysfunction. But it is possible to reverse this unhealthy mindset and become a healthier and happier person! HEALTHY SENSE OF SELF: the Secret to Being Your Best Self introduces the Sense of Self Method® and provides you with the insights and tools necessary to gain access to the reasons behind your choices and behavior. Once these drives emerge from the shadows of your subconscious, you are in the best possible position to rethink your goals, adjust your motivation, and heal your Self (Heal thy Self). You will become free to be your own person and live life to your fullest potential.

It’s time for bed. You’re tired, but you know you’ll be tossing and turning for hours to come. At dawn, you fall into a deep sleep, but it’s short lived. Long before you’re ready, your alarm clock mercilessly informs you that it’s time to get up. After decades of nights like this, Antoinetta Vogels managed to unravel the enigma of her sleeping problem and restore her ability to get a good night’s sleep. In How to Overcome Insomnia All by Yourself, Antoinetta reveals how to become a healthy sleeper through self-knowledge. Using examples from her own life and firsthand experience with this sleep disorder, Antoinetta explores the childhood circumstances that can lead to unhealthy motivation, approval-seeking behavior, and chronic insomnia in adulthood. She offers practical advice and activities that you can use to heal the wounds of the past so you can enjoy a brighter future full of joy, healthy relationships, and restful sleep.

Picking up where Quiet ended, How to Be Yourself is the best book you’ll ever read about how to conquer social anxiety. “This book is also a groundbreaking road map to finally being your true, authentic self.” —Susan Cain, New York Times, USA Today and nationally bestselling author of Quiet Up to 40% of people consider themselves shy. You might say you’re introverted or awkward, or that you're fine around friends but just can't speak up in a meeting or at a party. Maybe you're usually confident but have recently moved or started a new job, only to feel isolated and unsure. If you get nervous in social situations—meeting your partner's friends, public speaking, standing awkwardly in the elevator with your boss—you've probably been told, “Just be yourself!” But that's easier said than done—especially if you're prone to social anxiety. Weaving together cutting-edge science, concrete tips, and the compelling stories of real people who have risen above their social anxiety, Dr. Ellen Hendriksen proposes a groundbreaking idea: you already have everything you need to succeed in any unfamiliar social situation. As someone who lives with social anxiety, Dr. Hendriksen has devoted her career to helping her clients overcome the same obstacles she has. With familiarity, humor, and authority, Dr. Hendriksen takes the reader through the roots of social anxiety and why it endures, how we can rewire our brains through our behavior, and—at long last—exactly how to quiet your Inner Critic, the pesky voice that whispers, "Everyone will judge you." Using her techniques to develop confidence, think through the buzz of anxiety, and feel comfortable in any situation, you can finally be your true, authentic self.

Are you ready to get in touch with your Real Self? Liberate your Sense of Self with this personal diary and writing journal. Filled with candid quotations, affirmations, and illustrations that serve as thought-provoking prompts, this Guided Journal to a Healthy Sense of Self encourages you to look deep within, and provides plenty of space for writing, drawing, reflection, and self-expression. Do you ever wonder how you ended up where you are now? Confirm what you may have already suspected—that your motivations aren’t always what they seem. Journaling can help you fi nd clarity and perspective in what truly motivates you as you get in touch with who you are. Understanding why you’re unsatisfied with the results of your efforts and what you’re really trying to accomplish can lead to making better choices and seeing more positive, successful outcomes. Discover the fascinating reasons behind WHY you do WHAT you do and change your destiny! • Features over 120 provocative and compelling quotes to spark introspection • Includes a synopsis of the Sense of Self Method and a glossary of key terms • The perfect gift for anyone who is ready to let go of the past and embrace a happier, healthier future

Boost your self-esteem and truly believe that you are perfectly awesome Looking to get your hands on some more self-esteem? You're not alone. Thankfully, Self-Esteem For Dummies presents clear, innovative, and compassionate methods that help you identify the causes of low self-esteem—as well the lowdown on the consequences. Packed with trusted, hands-on advice to help you improve your overall self-worth, Self-Esteem For Dummies arms you with the proven tools and techniques for learning how to think and behave with more self-assurance at work, in social situations, and even in relationships. Self-esteem is shaped by your thoughts, relationships, and experiences. When you were growing up, your successes, failures, and how you were treated by your family, teachers, coaches, religious authorities, and peers determined how you feel about yourself. But you can shift your thinking and reclaim your self-worth with the help of Self-Esteem For Dummies. Helps you understand the ranges of self-esteem and the benefits of promoting self-esteem Arms you with the tools to learn how to think and behave with more self-assurance Covers the importance of mental wellbeing, assertiveness, resilience, and more Shows you how to improve your self-image, increase personal power, and feel better about yourself If you're looking to boost your sense of self-worth, Self-Esteem For Dummies sets you on the path to a more confident, awesome you.

Are you still the person who lived fifteen, ten or five years ago? Fifteen, ten or five minutes ago? Can you plan for your retirement if the you of thirty years hence is in some sense a different person? What and who is the real you? Does it remain constant over time and place, or is it something much more fragmented and fluid? Is it known to you, or are you as much a mystery to yourself as others are to you?With his usual wit, infectious curiosity and bracing scepticism, Julian Baggini sets out to answer these fundamental and unsettling questions. His fascinating quest draws on the history of philosophy, but also anthropology, sociology, psychology and neurology; he talks to theologians, priests, allegedly reincarnated Lamas, and delves into real-life cases of lost memory, personality disorders and personal transformation; and, candidly and engagingly, he describes his own experiences. After reading The Ego Trick, you will never see yourself in the same way again.

How to Raise Kids Who Aren't Assholes is a clear, actionable, sometimes humorous (but always science-based) guide for parents on how to shape their kids into honest, kind, generous, confident, independent, and resilient people...who just might save the world one day. As an award-winning science journalist, Melinda Wenner Moyer was regularly asked to investigate and address all kinds of parenting questions: how to potty train, when and whether to get vaccines, and how to help kids sleep through the night. But as Melinda's children grew, she found that one huge area was ignored in the realm of parenting advice: how do we make sure our kids don't grow up to be assholes? On social media, in the news, and from the highest levels of government, kids are increasingly getting the message that being selfish, obnoxious and cruel is okay. Hate crimes among children and teens are rising, while compassion among teens has been dropping. We know, of course, that young people have the capacity for great empathy, resilience, and action, and we all want to bring up kids who will help build a better tomorrow. But how do we actually do this? How do we raise children who are kind, considerate, and ethical inside and outside the home, who will grow into adults committed to making the world a better place? How to Raise Kids Who Aren't Assholes is a deeply researched, evidence-based primer that provides a fresh, often surprising perspective on parenting issues, from toddlerhood through the teenage years. First, Melinda outlines the traits we want our children to possess—including honesty, generosity, and antiracism—and then she provides scientifically-based strategies that will help parents instill those characteristics in their kids. Learn how to raise the kind of kids you actually want to hang out with—and who just might save the world.