Why Does He Do That?

Why Does He Do That?
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Publisher : Penguin
Total Pages : 436
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ISBN-10 : 0425191656
ISBN-13 : 9780425191651
Rating : 4/5 (56 Downloads)

Synopsis Why Does He Do That? by : Lundy Bancroft

In this groundbreaking bestseller, Lundy Bancroft—a counselor who specializes in working with abusive men—uses his knowledge about how abusers think to help women recognize when they are being controlled or devalued, and to find ways to get free of an abusive relationship. He says he loves you. So...why does he do that? You’ve asked yourself this question again and again. Now you have the chance to see inside the minds of angry and controlling men—and change your life. In Why Does He Do That? you will learn about: • The early warning signs of abuse • The nature of abusive thinking • Myths about abusers • Ten abusive personality types • The role of drugs and alcohol • What you can fix, and what you can’t • And how to get out of an abusive relationship safely “This is without a doubt the most informative and useful book yet written on the subject of abusive men. Women who are armed with the insights found in these pages will be on the road to recovering control of their lives.”—Jay G. Silverman, Ph.D., Director, Violence Prevention Programs, Harvard School of Public Health

Coercive Control

Coercive Control
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Publisher : Oxford University Press
Total Pages : 465
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ISBN-10 : 9780195384048
ISBN-13 : 0195384040
Rating : 4/5 (48 Downloads)

Synopsis Coercive Control by : Evan Stark

Drawing on cases, Stark identifies the problems with our current approach to domestic violence, outlines the components of coercive control, and then uses this alternate framework to analyse the cases of battered women charged with criminal offenses directed at their abusers.

Power and Control

Power and Control
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Publisher : Random House
Total Pages : 274
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ISBN-10 : 9780091884321
ISBN-13 : 0091884322
Rating : 4/5 (21 Downloads)

Synopsis Power and Control by : Sandra Horley

Abused women tell their stories of domestic violence from their partners, how they controlled them with their power. Some of the abused women have reclaimed their lives and hope it will encourage others to leave their situation.

Controlling People

Controlling People
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Publisher : Simon and Schuster
Total Pages : 290
Release :
ISBN-10 : 9781440501906
ISBN-13 : 1440501904
Rating : 4/5 (06 Downloads)

Synopsis Controlling People by : Patricia Evans

Learn how to “break the spell” of control with this bestseller hailed by Oprah Winfrey. Controlling People reveals the thought processes of those who try to control others and provides a “spell-breaking” mind-set for those who suffer this insidious manipulation. Does this sound like someone you know? *Always needs to be right *Tells you who you are and what you think *Implies that you’re wrong or inadequate when you don’t agree *Is threatened by people who are “different” *Feels attacked when questioned *Doesn’t seem to really hear or see you If any of the above traits sounds familiar, help is on the way! In Controlling People, bestselling author Patricia Evans, tackles the “controlling personality,” and reveals how and why these people try to run other people’s lives. She also explains the compulsion that makes them continue this behavior—even as they alienate others and often lose those they love. Controlling People helps you unravel the senseless behavior that plagues both the controller and the victim. Can the pattern or spell be broken? YES, says the author. By understanding the compelling force involved, you can be a catalyst for change and actually become a spell-breaker. Once the spell is broken and the controller sees others as they really are, a genuine connection can be forged and healing can occur. Should you ever find yourself in the thrall of someone close to you, Controlling People is here to give you the wisdom, power, and comfort you need to be a stronger, happier, and more independent person.

Invisible Chains

Invisible Chains
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Publisher : Guilford Publications
Total Pages : 240
Release :
ISBN-10 : 9781462520350
ISBN-13 : 1462520359
Rating : 4/5 (50 Downloads)

Synopsis Invisible Chains by : Lisa Aronson Fontes

When you are showered with attention, it can feel incredibly romantic and can blind you to hints of problems ahead. But what happens when attentiveness becomes domination? In some relationships, the desire to control leads to jealousy, threats, micromanaging--even physical violence. If you or someone you care about are trapped in a web of coercive control, this book provides answers, hope, and a way out. Lisa Aronson Fontes draws on both professional expertise and personal experience to help you: *Recognize controlling behaviors of all kinds. *Understand why this destructive pattern occurs. *Determine whether you are in danger and if your partner can change. *Protect yourself and your kids. *Find the support and resources you need. *Take action to improve or end your relationship. *Regain your freedom and independence.

Coercive Control:How Men Entrap Women in Personal Life

Coercive Control:How Men Entrap Women in Personal Life
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Publisher : Oxford University Press
Total Pages : 466
Release :
ISBN-10 : 9780195348330
ISBN-13 : 0195348338
Rating : 4/5 (30 Downloads)

Synopsis Coercive Control:How Men Entrap Women in Personal Life by : Evan Stark

Despite its great achievements, the domestic violence revolution is stalled, Evan Stark argues, a provocative conclusion he documents by showing that interventions have failed to improve womens long-term safety in relationships or to hold perpetrators accountable. Stark traces this failure to a startling paradox, that the singular focus on violence against women masks an even more devastating reality. In millions of abusive relationships, men use a largely unidentified form of subjugation that more closely resembles kidnapping or indentured servitude than assault. He calls this pattern coercive control. Drawing on sources that range from FBI statistics and film to dozens of actual cases from his thirty years of experience as an award-winning researcher, advocate, and forensic expert, Stark shows in terrifying detail how men can use coercive control to extend their dominance over time and through social space in ways that subvert women's autonomy, isolate them, and infiltrate the most intimate corners of their lives. Against this backdrop, Stark analyzes the cases of three women tried for crimes committed in the context of abuse, showing that their reactions are only intelligible when they are reframed as victims of coercive control rather than as battered wives. The story of physical and sexual violence against women has been told often. But this is the first book to show that most abused women who seek help do so because their rights and liberties have been jeopardized, not because they have been injured. The coercive control model Stark develops resolves three of the most perplexing challenges posed by abuse: why these relationships endure, why abused women develop a profile of problems seen among no other group of assault victims, and why the legal system has failed to win them justice. Elevating coercive control from a second-class misdemeanor to a human rights violation, Stark explains why law, policy, and advocacy must shift its focus to emphasize how coercive control jeopardizes women's freedom in everyday life. Fiercely argued and eminently readable, Stark's work is certain to breathe new life into the domestic violence revolution.

Daily Wisdom for Why Does He Do That?

Daily Wisdom for Why Does He Do That?
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Publisher : Penguin
Total Pages : 464
Release :
ISBN-10 : 9781101609910
ISBN-13 : 1101609915
Rating : 4/5 (10 Downloads)

Synopsis Daily Wisdom for Why Does He Do That? by : Lundy Bancroft

Lundy Bancroft expands on his bestseller Why Does He Do That? in this daily guide that empowers women who are suffering in abusive relationships. Even if you’ve read Why Does He Do That?, it may be hard to see the truth of what is happening to you. You may feel overwhelmed by confusion, loss, and fear, and find yourself looking away from the truth and falling back into traumatic patterns. What you need is something that is there for you every day—to help you make a long series of little changes that will ultimately add up to a big one. Like a constant friend, this collection of meditations is a source of strength and reassurance designed to speak to women like you, women in relationships with angry and controlling men. It is a tool you can use to learn how to value and respect yourself—even when your partner makes it very clear that he does not. With seven themes designed to encourage and inspire, Daily Wisdom for Why Does He Do That? will help you digest what is happening one day at a time, so that you can gain clarity, safety, and freedom. You will see the truth in your destructive relationship. You and your children will survive. And—with these encouragements—even tomorrow will be a better day than today.

Controlling Men

Controlling Men
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Publisher :
Total Pages : 50
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ISBN-10 : 1982045000
ISBN-13 : 9781982045005
Rating : 4/5 (00 Downloads)

Synopsis Controlling Men by : Luna Parker

If you're living with a controlling partner (husband or boyfriend), then this book is for you!Marriages and relationships are a lot more successful if both parties are on the same page. But things can quickly go in the other direction if your husband or boyfriend becomes too controlling. Your partner is meant to share a life with you, dealing with the same difficulties and sorrows that you are. When he's controlling though, he actually becomes the one giving you the burden. It is very important to draw a line if your boyfriend or husband's controlling behavior starts to suffocate you. A man obsessed with controlling your life is enough to destroy even the strongest relationship, and the strongest person. In this book, you will learn all the secrets to managing and transforming your man's controlling demeanor so that you can altogether overcome this problem and get back to a loving relationship.

Codependent No More

Codependent No More
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Publisher : Simon and Schuster
Total Pages : 155
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ISBN-10 : 9781592857920
ISBN-13 : 1592857922
Rating : 4/5 (20 Downloads)

Synopsis Codependent No More by : Melody Beattie

In a crisis, it's easy to revert to old patterns. Caring for your well-being during the coronavirus pandemic includes maintaining healthy boundaries and saying no to unhealthy relationships. The healing touchstone of millions, this modern classic by one of America's best-loved and most inspirational authors holds the key to understanding codependency and to unlocking its stultifying hold on your life. Is someone else's problem your problem? If, like so many others, you've lost sight of your own life in the drama of tending to someone else's, you may be codependent--and you may find yourself in this book--Codependent No More. The healing touchstone of millions, this modern classic by one of America's best-loved and most inspirational authors holds the key to understanding codependency and to unlocking its stultifying hold on your life. With instructive life stories, personal reflections, exercises, and self-tests, Codependent No More is a simple, straightforward, readable map of the perplexing world of codependency--charting the path to freedom and a lifetime of healing, hope, and happiness. Melody Beattie is the author of Beyond Codependency, The Language of Letting Go, Stop Being Mean to Yourself, The Codependent No More Workbook and Playing It by Heart.

The Manipulated Man

The Manipulated Man
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Publisher : Pinter & Martin Publishers
Total Pages : 0
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ISBN-10 : 1905177178
ISBN-13 : 9781905177172
Rating : 4/5 (78 Downloads)

Synopsis The Manipulated Man by : Esther Vilar

Argues that a man is a human being who works, while a woman chooses to let a man provide for her and her children in return for carefully dispensed praise and sex. This book maintains that only if women and men look at their place in society with honesty, will there be any hope for change.