My name is Darryl C. Green, and my life was turned upside down by the violent death of my younger brother. For years after his death, I was dy-ing inside from anger and my inability to forgive his killer. It is my sin-cere hope that these short stories and essays from people across the world - people who learned how to stop hurting and carrying their pain, peo-ple whose journeys led them to healing, reconciliation and deep for-giveness just as mine did - will serve as a roadmap for you and others who are experiencing similar hurt and pain. I pray that this book moves you and other readers from brokenness to wholeness.

Helps readers move beyond the wounds and baggage of bitterness, disagreements, and broken relationships. "True or false: most Christian pastors and counselors agree on what forgiveness is and how it should take place." This question is part of Chris Brauns's Forgiveness Quiz that draws readers into his book and gets them thinking about the subject of forgiveness. The truth is, pastors and counselors disagree profoundly on this subject. Unpacking Forgiveness combines sound theological thinking and honesty about the complicated questions many face to provide readers with a solid understanding of biblical forgiveness. Only God's Word can unpack forgiveness. The wounds are too deep for us to find healing on our own, and the questions are too complex to be unraveled by anything but the wisdom of God. This book goes beyond a feel-good doctrine of automatic forgiveness, balancing the beauty of God's grace and the necessity of forgiveness with the teaching that forgiveness must take place in a way that is consistent with justice.

Archbishop Desmond Tutu, Nobel Peace Prize winner, Chair of The Elders, and Chair of South Africa’s Truth and Reconciliation Commission, along with his daughter, the Reverend Mpho Tutu, offer a manual on the art of forgiveness—helping us to realize that we are all capable of healing and transformation. Tutu's role as the Chair of the Truth and Reconciliation Commission taught him much about forgiveness. If you asked anyone what they thought was going to happen to South Africa after apartheid, almost universally it was predicted that the country would be devastated by a comprehensive bloodbath. Yet, instead of revenge and retribution, this new nation chose to tread the difficult path of confession, forgiveness, and reconciliation. Each of us has a deep need to forgive and to be forgiven. After much reflection on the process of forgiveness, Tutu has seen that there are four important steps to healing: Admitting the wrong and acknowledging the harm; Telling one's story and witnessing the anguish; Asking for forgiveness and granting forgiveness; and renewing or releasing the relationship. Forgiveness is hard work. Sometimes it even feels like an impossible task. But it is only through walking this fourfold path that Tutu says we can free ourselves of the endless and unyielding cycle of pain and retribution. The Book of Forgiving is both a touchstone and a tool, offering Tutu's wise advice and showing the way to experience forgiveness. Ultimately, forgiving is the only means we have to heal ourselves and our aching world.

This is NOT just another book on forgiveness; this one provides the necessary tools to help you forgive profoundly, more or less instantaneously and with ease. First published in 1997, this 2nd Edition builds on the success of the first edition which has changed hundreds if not thousands of lives. The book will more than likely change your life. It will transform how you view your past and what is occurring for you in the present, especially where relationships are concerned. Unlike other forms of forgiveness, radical forgiveness is easily achieved and virtually immediate, enabling you to let go of being a victim, open your heart and raise your vibration. The simple, easy-to-use tools provided help you let go of the emotional baggage of the past and to feel the joy of living in total surrender to the process of life as it unfolds, however it unfolds. The result is vastly increased happiness, personal power and freedom.

This book was written from a practical and personal point of view for one purpose: to set you free! You will discover the benefits of forgiving, what forgiveness is and is not, 10 practical steps to forgiveness, how to forgive others, God and yourself, how forgiveness affects your self-image, how to once-and-for-all receive forgiveness, and why forgiveness can set you free.

"Joan Gattuso, bestselling author of A Course in Love, brings her wisdom to a topic that affects everyone-- how to forgive when forgiveness seems impossible. Gattuso's practical and inspiring teaching serves as a compass to the spiritual principles that can transform bitterness into beauty and anger into peace. Gattuso shows us that the road to forgiveness is the path to freedom. It is this freedom, she writes, that allows us to move forward, so that we can live a happy and joy-filled life"--

Forgiveness is not an event, it is a process. Forgiveness is most powerful when a woman reaches midlife: a natural time for reflection when she stands at a biological and emotional crossroads. In this groundbreaking book—the first of its kind for women—acclaimed therapist Tian Dayton shows women how assessing their lives and forgiving old wounds is as essential to their well-being as proper nutrition and retirement planning. In forgiving, we must work through layers of issues, pain and resentment. Because of this, the process is of great psychological, emotional and spiritual benefit. Left unresolved, past hurts wield their power from within and can contribute to depression and anxiety, undermining the immune system and ultimately opening the door to a multitude of diseases. And harboring resentment prevents us from engaging in deep, meaningful relationships. Through solid research, poignant case studies and personal examples, Dr. Dayton guides women through the sometimes painful but healing process to provide the comfort that may have eluded them for years. This beautifully written book will open women's eyes to the liberating power of forgiveness and provide the ability to find true joy.

To say that offering forgiveness is a challenge is an understatement. Forgiveness is tough! Forgiveness is often messy. Forgiveness doesn’t feel good to most of us. And when it comes to the biggest, deepest hurts in life, forgiveness can seem impossible. Some hurts are the everyday, garden-variety irritations we endure for having to live in the company of other human beings who lose their tempers, get up on the wrong side of the bed, say nasty things, are ungrateful, selfish, and irritable. Some hurts are of a magnitude that far transcend these — degradation, exploitation, abandonment, rejection, humiliation, racism, bullying, physical, sexual, or emotional abuse. But with God’s grace, even in those most difficult cases, forgiveness is possible. In Choosing Forgiveness, Fr. Thomas Berg and Dr. Timothy G. Lock are your guides on the way toward forgiveness through the grace of God. This book will help you discover the pathway to healing, peace, and interior freedom, releasing you and those who have wronged you from the bondage of unforgiveness.

The Psychology of Forgiveness: Healing Through Letting Go is an insightful and transformative guide that delves deep into the emotional, psychological, and relational power of forgiveness. Whether you are struggling to forgive others or wrestling with the challenge of forgiving yourself, this book offers a step-by-step framework for releasing anger, resentment, and the emotional pain that holds you back from living a fulfilling life. Drawing on the latest psychological research, real-life case studies, and practical tools, this book explores the science behind forgiveness and its profound impact on mental and emotional well-being. It examines why forgiveness is essential for healing, how unresolved anger and grudges affect our physical and mental health, and the liberating effects of letting go of past hurts. Key Highlights: The Science of Forgiveness: Understand the psychological and neurological benefits of forgiveness, backed by research that shows how forgiving can reduce stress, improve mental health, and enhance overall well-being. The Difference Between Forgiving and Forgetting: Explore the critical distinctions between forgiving and forgetting, and learn how to forgive without allowing others to harm you again. Discover the boundaries that protect you while you release the emotional burden of resentment. Self-Forgiveness: Learn how to address feelings of guilt and shame, and embark on a path to self-compassion and self-forgiveness. This book provides practical strategies for breaking free from the cycle of self-blame and negative self-talk. Empathy and Compassion in Forgiveness: Understand the role empathy plays in the forgiveness process, and how cultivating compassion can help you see others—and yourself—in a more understanding light. Practical Exercises: Each chapter includes actionable exercises, including journaling prompts, guided meditations, and visualization techniques, to help you work through specific grievances—whether personal, professional, or familial. Healing from Betrayal and Trauma: Learn how to move forward from deep betrayals, unresolved conflicts, and even past traumas. Through real-life stories of people who have overcome these challenges, this book offers inspiration and guidance for reclaiming your peace. Who This Book is For: Anyone struggling with unresolved anger or resentment toward others or themselves. Individuals who have experienced betrayal, conflict, or trauma and are seeking emotional closure. Those interested in improving their relationships by learning how to forgive and let go of past hurts. Readers who wish to understand the psychology of forgiveness and its role in mental, emotional, and physical health. Whether you're looking to heal from a specific incident or wish to cultivate forgiveness as a daily practice, The Psychology of Forgiveness: Healing Through Letting Go provides the knowledge, tools, and inspiration to help you move forward. By the end of this book, you will feel empowered to release the emotional burdens holding you back, make peace with the past, and embrace a life filled with emotional freedom and inner calm.