A revised edition of the classic guide on how to best resolve conflict in today's technologically advanced workplace. Your work day is filled with them--people who frustrate, impede, maneuver, undermine, plot, connive, and whine. This indispensable guide details specific techniques for handling all of them, with easy-to-follow scenarios for every situation. Updated and revised to reflect modern issues including technology, generation gaps, and language barriers, this guide describes 10 kinds of culprits, from tyrants and bullies (regular and cyber) to the pushy and presumptuous to connivers and camouflagers; and offers helpful strategies and phrases for diffusing workplace tensions and effectively resolving conflicts.

Wouldn't it be nice if you could get through your work day without ever encountering difficult personalities? Unfortunately, we can't usually pick our coworkers or our customers, which means at some point you're bound to find yourself in difficult relationships with people who are hard to deal with. While you can't change difficult people, you can learn to communicate effectively and to diffuse interpersonal conflict before it starts. “Difficult People: Dealing With Difficult People At Work” will give you the skills you need to deal with difficult people at work and provide you with the tools you need to overcome the obstacles to working with challenging people. Written by an expert in interpersonal relationships, “Difficult People: Dealing With Difficult People At Work” is an easy-to-read guide that makes dealing with difficult people at work much easier whether the people in question are coworkers, supervisors or customers. This book covers a broad range of topics and will: • Teach you how to deal with difficult conversations to avoid conflict and resolve differences productively • Improve your communication skills at work, so that you can get your point across to difficult people and gain understanding of their points of view • Give you strategies for dealing with anger and stress to make coping with difficult people easier and ensure that you don't lose your cool • Provide insight into the types of personalities that you're likely to encounter with difficult people at work • Supply you with tools that you can use to resolve conflict when it does arise The knowledge, insight, skills and tools you'll gain from, “Difficult People: Dealing With Difficult People At Work” will help you in your current role at work and with coping with difficult people as you advance in your career. The lessons you'll learn for managing interpersonal conflict and navigating difficult relationships can transform every aspect of life, helping you communicate effectively with friends and family as well. Stop dreading every encounter with those difficult personalities around the office and become a better leader and peer. Download, “Difficult People: Dealing With Difficult People At Work” today!

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Dealing with difficult people - from awkward customers at work to irritating neighbours at home - is a challenge many people face on a day-to-day basis. This book will show you how to: - Defuse and deal with difficult customers, both on the phone and face to face; - Manage problems with colleagues in the workplace, including a manipulative boss; - Handle difficult day-to-day interactions with any people we come into contact anywhere; - Identify and manage behaviours which can turn a person into a ‘problem’;Improve necessary listening and communication skills; - Increase self confidence and develop rapport building skills. This book contains some proven techniques for managing yourself as well as managing difficult people. If you gain a better understanding of yourself, build your confidence and use these techniques, then you’ll make your life a whole lot easier.

Explains how to: Identify 10 bothersome behaviors and deal successfully with each of them Understand why people become difficult Use sophisticated techniques to neutralize whining, negativity, attacks, tantrums and more Cultivate the nine "take-charge" skills that prevent people from becoming difficult

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