Combative to Collaborative: The Co-parenting Code channels parents' interactions with each other to what they really want?to be good parents together. But while most co-parenting books tell parents to just put the kids first even if that means sacrificing their own happiness, Combative to Collaborative shows parents how supporting each other as good parenting partners ensures they do what's best for their kids while also achieving personal happiness. Move from anger, hurt, and loss to consideration, kindness, and cooperation.Discover how to:- Diffuse a co-parent's snarky behavior and avoid triggering their hostility- Recognize your own combative behaviors and stop exhibiting them- Plan for co-parenting collaboration and success- Correct course when a relationship goes astray - even after many years of conflict!The book is divided into three stages: Uncoupling, Life Goes On, and Correcting Course. Then each chapter lays out a roadmap for a particular area of co-parenting. Whether parents are newly separated, well into their journey, or have been at it for years, this book will guide the way. For each co-parenting topic covered...- Explore what's at stake for the child, parents, and others involved.- Identify the combative behaviors that derail parenting efforts and make life miserable for everyone.- Read True Stories to see how real parents have handled situations both successfully and not as well. As you read these stories, you'll learn what worked and what didn't and also find out you're not alone.- Learn the DOs and DON'Ts of collaborative behaviors.- Answer questions that will help you adopt an empathetic mindset, apply the Golden Rule to your situation, and achieve the positive outcome you desire.This is The Co-parenting Code!Combative to Collaborative: The Co-parenting Code is the essential guide for parents living separately to not only improve life for their children, but also for themselves and everyone that surrounds them. You can save your family. You can be happy! A painful decision does not have to mean a pain-filled life.

A successful co-parenting relationship is as vital to your child's well-being and health as nutritious food or proper exercise. Research, anecdotal evidence, and plain common sense all point to the fact that children are happier, healthier, and better adjusted when both of their parents play an active role in their lives. Studies also show that the trauma children experience in the wake of a divorce or separation can be lessened when they see their parents getting along. Kids whose parents successfully co-parent feel more secure than those who have limited or no connection to one of their parents post divorce. Co-Parenting 101 is based on the premise that co-parenting is a must, not an option. The involvement of both parents—not just the primary guardian—is the cornerstone of successful co-parenting. This is the first book written by a formerly married couple for whom co parenting is central to their day to day lives, and it offers a comprehensive, personal, and upfront look at how to effectively raise kids with an ex-spouse. Authors Deesha Philyaw and Michael D. Thomas, the creators of the popular co-parenting website, co-parenting101.org, share their own experiences raising their children together, as well as provide professional advice from co-parenting experts. Through practical tips combined with expert parental strategies, this book a great resource for divorced parents with children. For parents, less time stressed out about legal wrangling means more time to be fully present and engaged with the children. By learning to put their animosity aside, parents can focus on putting their kids first.

"About half of marriages end in divorce, and children of divorced parents experience higher rates of psychological problems. Children's healthy development depends on having continued access to both parents, and Divorce and Co-parenting: A Support Guide for the Modern Family details how parents can work together during and after a divorce for the sake of their children. The authors, a psychiatrist and an attorney, provide a wealth of information for parents, including how to tell children about the divorce; what to expect from the legal processes of mediation, arbitration, and custody; and how to help children deal with their responses to the divorce. Consideration is given to difficulties encountered by both parents and children, with extensive coverage of parenting time, disciplinary issues, establishing a support system or stepfamily, and danger signals that indicate professional help is warranted. A helpful question and answer section and resources are provided, and the book makes liberal use of case examples to help guide the entire family through a difficult transitional time"--

This insightful guide offers practical advice and tools for divorced or separated parents who are seeking to co-parent effectively despite the challenges of a fractured relationship. From communication techniques to setting boundaries, this book explores every aspect of successful co-parenting and provides valuable insights on how to navigate co-parenting with grace and respect. Readers will learn how to prioritize the needs of their children above all else, fostering a sense of stability and security during the transition from a unified family unit to separate households. By embracing open and honest communication, parents can work together to create a cohesive co-parenting plan that puts their children first. Through the exploration of common co-parenting struggles and solutions, readers will gain a deeper understanding of the complexities of raising children in two separate homes. Co-Parenting Harmonyalso delves into the emotional challenges that often accompany co-parenting, providing guidance on how to manage feelings of resentment, guilt, and anger in a healthy and productive manner. By cultivating a mindset of cooperation and collaboration, parents can create a nurturing and supportive co-parenting dynamic that promotes the well-being of their children. With a focus on building a strong co-parenting relationship based on mutual respect and understanding, Co-Parenting Harmonyempowers parents to embrace their new roles and navigate the complexities of co-parenting with confidence and grace. By implementing the strategies outlined in this book, readers can cultivate a harmonious co-parenting experience that lays the foundation for a bright and promising future for their children.

A valuable parenting guide for divorced or separated couples with kids, this handbook offers tools for navigating conflicts and setting boundaries so both children and co-parents can thrive Parents need help to confidently take on the challenges of guiding children through divorce or separation and raising them skillfully in 2 homes. The authors, both trusted divorce and co-parenting coaches, provide the road map for all family members to safely navigate the difficult emotional terrain through separation/divorce and beyond. The authors offer reassuring well-tested guidance, including advice on: • The emotional impact of separation for both parents and kids • Conflict and mediation • Settling into a 2-home family • Respectful communication and decision making • Managing finances • Co-parenting at holidays and events • Introducing new adults into children’s lives With strategies to help resolve day-to-day issues, create boundaries, and establish guidelines for a wide range of families and experiences, this accessible manual is a must have for co-parents.

Note: links below connect to the non-profit educational Break the Cycle! Web site (Formerly "Stepfamily inFormation"). Close the pages or use your browser ́s "back" button to return here. Typical multi-home stepfamilies are riddled with conflicts between three or more co-parents and their relatives over child discipline, nutrition, visitations, custody, hygiene, religion, schooling, hoidays, loyalties, expenses, names, responsibilities, and other topics. The scope, complexity, and persistence of these disputes among ex mates, stepparents, and relatives can significantly contribute to eventual re/divorce. (The "/" notes it may be a stepparent ́s first union). This guidebook is part of a series intended to help co-parents and supporters overcome five common hazards that combine to (1) promote epidemic U.S. re/divorce, and (2) pass on significant psychological wounds to vulnerable children. The hazards are: co-parents ́ shared unawarenesses and ignorance of key information; plus... unseen psychological wounds from low-nurturance childhoods; plus... incomplete or blocked grief in kids and/or adults, which inhibits new bonds and adult intimacy; plus... courtship neediness and romantic illusions; plus... little informed stepfamily help in the media and local community. Typical nuclear stepfamilies include three or more co-parents (bioparents and stepparents) and several minor kids shuttling between two or more homes: Parenting effectively in this environment is far more complex than in "traditional" intact biological families - which catches typical co-parents and relatives by surprise. Why this book (and series)? Families exist to nurture - i.e. to fill key needs of their kids and adults. Most U.S. stepfamilies follow the divorce of one or both new mates, most of whom are parents. Divorce suggests that their kids weren ́t well nurtured in their first family, and have many concurrent developmental + special needs to fill in their complex stepfamily.

The book "Co-Parenting Tips and Strategies: A Guide to Raising Happy and Healthy Children Together" offers a thorough overview of co-parenting, covering everything from the fundamentals of what co-parenting is and the advantages and difficulties it presents to more complex topics like creating a co-parenting plan, establishing a support network, and dealing with unique circumstances. The book is filled with practical tips, strategies, and resources for co-parents, including communication techniques, conflict resolution, and emotional support for children. It also covers the modern aspects of co-parenting such as co-parenting using technology, and blended families.

Protect your child from alienation and loyalty conflicts. During and after a difficult divorce, it’s easy for your relationship with your kids to become strained—especially if you are dealing with a toxic ex who bad-mouths you in front of your children, accuses you of being a bad parent, and even attempts to “replace” you with a new partner in your children’s lives. Your children may become confused, conflicted, angry, anxious, or depressed—and you may feel powerless. But there is help. In this guide, you’ll discover a positive parenting approach to dealing with a hostile ex-spouse. You'll learn the best ways to protect your children from painful loyalty conflicts, how to avoid parental alienation syndrome, and techniques for talking to your children in a way that fosters honesty and trust. Co-parenting with a toxic ex can be challenging, but with the right tools you can protect your kids and make your relationship with them stronger than ever.

This comprehensive guide offers a roadmap for navigating the complexities of co-parenting with a narcissistic ex. It provides invaluable strategies for setting clear boundaries, maintaining emotional distance, and prioritizing the well-being of your children. Through practical advice and real-life examples, this book helps you understand the manipulative tactics employed by narcissists and equips you with the tools to effectively counter them. It empowers you to establish healthy co-parenting dynamics, reduce conflict, and create a nurturing environment for your children. Whether you are struggling with communication, financial disputes, or the manipulation of your children's affections, this book provides evidence-based strategies for addressing each challenge. It highlights the importance of seeking support from therapists, attorneys, and other professionals to ensure the safety and emotional well-being of both yourself and your children. By embracing the principles outlined in this guide, you can break free from the cycle of manipulation and create a thriving co-parenting relationship that prioritizes the happiness and health of your children. It is an indispensable resource for any parent facing the challenges of co-parenting with a narcissistic ex.

This book is for parents who are no longer together and have a minor child (or children). It emphasizes the importance of compromising the parents' negative thoughts or feelings for and against the other parent to focus on the child's needs. Among other things, it discusses (i) the importance of the child's vulnerability of feeling that they must choose sides; (ii) how speaking positively about the other parent helps to build the child's self esteem and confidence, etc . This book illustrates effective ways to co-parent which results in the child ultimately having a healthy physical, spiritual and mental well-being.